Decoding His Moves

Bago ang lahat, i'd like to offer this post sa isang tao! lam mo na kung sino ka sinabihan kita kaya wag ka ng magmaang maangan! Never in my wildest kembang na naisip kong magiging close kita. Salamat sa lahat ng comfort. Lam kong di ka din ok, may problema ka din, pero you're there. Thanks a lot. Sobrang laki mong tulong para matanggal sa isip ko ung mga bagay na hindi na dapat pinagiisip. And because of that, this one's for you.

Most of the time mahilig tau sa NON VERBAL COMMUNCATION. Yung mga pasimpleng ngiti, tingin, snob, emote emotan, pamiss effect na mga ganian part yan ng non verbal communication na sinasabi ko. And i know, GUILTY ka jan! lahat ng tao gingawa yan. We are hoping na makukuha ng partner natin kung ano ung gusto talaga natin ipaalam o ipaabot sa kanila through this non verbal communication. Pero the sad part is, slow sila! Hindi nila nakukuha yung mga pasimpleng tingin, ngiti or whatever naten! Tapos magagalit tayo xe we will think na our efforts are not recognized. Sayang sa effort. But in reality, malaki din yung mali natin dun. kasi at first place, hindi naman tayo dapat nagexpect maxado. That's the problem with humans, we EXPECT TOO MUCH. Lesson? We hurt ourselves by expecting too much. Yan ang isa sa mga natutunan ko nitong nakaraang taon! The down part is, tinuro sakin sa masakit na paraan! Misunderstood, nagkasira sira na lahat. And that's all because of expecting!

This senario happens a lot. Yun nga ung nakakapagtaka sa tao eh. After all, mahilig pa rin sila magexpect. Ito na ata ang pumapangalawa sa pride when it comes to destruction of relationships.

Being sweet. Isa pa yan sa mga ineexpect natin sa partner natin. Even with the smallest things. One way of being sweet is being affectionate. Not necessarily PDA! (teh, matanda ka na alam mo na dapat kung san at kailan lang pwede!) Lalo na sa mga girls. It means a lot to us. Kahit simpleng peck lang. Samin, it's one way of telling the world na mahal mo yung partner mo. ow... hehehe. When I was in high school may binigay sakin na Copy si Munirih. nakasulat xa sa yellow paper. It's a research about love. But more on research about kisses. Nakita ko xa ngaun ngaun lang, gusto ko lang ishare para next time you'll be kissed, you'll know how to interpret, or vice versa. The next time you'll kiss someone, you'll know where to kiss.

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1. KISS ON THE CHEEK .......... "We're friends"
2. KISS ON THE HAND .......... "I adore you"
3. KISS ON THE SHOULDER .......... "I want you"
4. KISS ON THE EAR .......... "I'm Horny!"
5. KISS ON THE LIPS .......... "I love you"
6. KISS ON THE NOSE .......... "Let's get silly but sweet"
7. KISS ON THE NECK .......... "I want you"
8. KISSING WITH EYES CLOSED MEANS .......... "I'm in love with you"
9. KISSING WITH THE EYES OPEN MEANS .......... "I'm watching where your hands are going"
10. HOLDING HANDS .......... "We can learn to love each other"
11. A WINK .......... "Let's get it on"
12. SLAP ON THE BUTT .......... "Watch out"
13. PLAYING WITH THE EAR .......... "I can't live without you"
14. ARMS AROUND THE WAIST .......... "I love you too much to let go"
15. PULLING HAIR ON HEAD .......... "Tell me you love me (too)"
16. HOLDING TIGHT .......... "Don't let go"
17. OFTEN THINGKING OF YOU MEANS .........."I care for you"
18. LOOKING INTO THE EYES MEANS .......... "Do you love me?/I like you hope you like me too"
19. SQUEEZING FINGERTIPS MEANS .......... "I want a kiss"
20. LEANING ON THE SHOULDER MEANS .......... "COMFORT ME"
21. GETTING OCCASIONAL SHORT HUGS MEANS .......... "I miss you"
22. BITING LIPS MEANS .......... "I'm jealous"
23. PLAYING WITH HAIR MEANS .......... "I adore you"
24. STEPPING ON TOES MEANS .......... "I hate you"
25. DREAMING OF YOU AT NIGHT .......... "You're someone special"
26. WEARING HIS/HER RING MEANS .......... "You're mine"
27. OFTEN GIVING YOU SOMETHING MEANS .......... "I care for you very much"
28. ALWAYS BEING WITH YOU MEANS .......... "I can't live without you."

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Ayan. Andyan na ang List. babasahin nalang! pero sinasabi ko sayo. wag ka pa rin maxadong umasa sa NON VERBAL COMMUNICATION NA YAN! bakit?! sure ka bang mababasa din 2 ng partner mo?

BE VOCAL! BE OPEN! based on experience ko na yan. makinig ka sakin! para hindi ka matulad sakin.